2 thousandths of an inch should be about the upper limit for rod and main clearance (but you better look it up). Don’t forget to check the crank thrust play. These engines seem to chew up the cranks rather than the bearings.
Make sure your idle speed is high enough. I think these engines spec’ed at 40 PSI @ 2500 RPM (better look that up also) as the pumps just can’t pull oil out of the pan at low speeds.
If you’re changing bearings; I think 350 Buick rod bearings will fit; but are a little wider than the 231 (yep; look that up also; there may be a listing for V-6 HD bearings). If the thrust surface is eat-up; you can get an oversize bearing for that; but it requires the crank coming out. It will come out the bottom; but I don’t recommend it. Pulling the engine is easier. If the crank is out; rather than cut it for an oversize thrust; you could get it built up for not much more money.
IMHO... the thrust is likely fine... I haven't even driven the car since I fired the fresh rebuild up...only has about an hour of run time now...
I am changing the oil tonight to 20w50 and fixing my cooling fan issue (they aren't coming on until 205 deg...... If I can get the cooling issue resolved... and the thicker oil.... I probably will have adequate pressure. I'll report back later tonight probably....