To the O/P. Why are you concentrating on the autoloaders vs. a dual action revolver?
You would be doing both your G/F & yourself a huge diservice by not trying a revolver. Nothing beats a D/A revolver for being able to sit in a drawer/night stand, etc for years (maintenance free) & than being ready for service at a moments notice. Usually they are easier to shoot accurately, especially when you are suffering from an adrenaline dump. I have a couple of autoloaders including a 1911, but my most trusted handgun is my Ruger .357.
~JM~
You would be doing both your G/F & yourself a huge diservice by not trying a revolver. Nothing beats a D/A revolver for being able to sit in a drawer/night stand, etc for years (maintenance free) & than being ready for service at a moments notice. Usually they are easier to shoot accurately, especially when you are suffering from an adrenaline dump. I have a couple of autoloaders including a 1911, but my most trusted handgun is my Ruger .357.
~JM~