I still can't get over my ex-g/f

[rx4mike]

In my opinion

Relationships are like flies on a screen door...

There are as many waiting to get in as there are waiting to get out.

 

[d0n_3d]

i just tried asking a really nice looking girl out tonight in one of my college classes...she said she was in a 3-year relationship...DOH!

she was really cool about me asking her though...it was like if she hadn't been dating this guy that she would give me a try...now i have a little confidence...wish i could find someone...i am on a mission right now

 

[ulose2av6]

listen. give yourself a chance to be alone. You are acting on the desperate side now. I know that it feels great to be 21 but hey you beat yourself up terribly let the biatches come to you. THEY ARE ALL NO GOOD. We all cant be wrong on this post. They are like lightswitches you can turn them off and on in an instant. They say to be alone for a year. Plus if you do i guarantee you will mess it up because you are not over you ex. You have nothing to worry about. trust me we all been through this S***

 

[BlackBuick84]

Originally posted by d0n_3d
i just tried asking a really nice looking girl out tonight in one of my college classes...she said she was in a 3-year relationship...DOH!

Maybe you just had something stuck in yer teeth an she thinks you have bad hygiene.

If your ex gonna act shady and immature, let her do that. Go find someone else. For me, once relationships go south, they dont ever get completely fixed again.
She sounds too dumb to realize what you put into the relationship, especially if she breaks it off w/o a halfway decent reason. Stupid girls....this is why they all need to just shut up, go in the kitchen and make me a sandwich
















j/k of course, maybe

 

[d0n_3d]

you know i was always told in high school that girls always mature faster than guys...WRONG!!! that is such a load of bs statement that i have ever heard in my life...it's more like the other way around...girls are IMMATURE until age 25 or around there...all girls it seems like they have NO clue about life between the ages of 16-22 so far that i have encountered...once they turn 18 and go off to college they think they have everything figured out...little do they know they are still STUPID and have no idea about anything...i really hate women...this is a MAN's world anyways...go make me dinner biatch

i am never getting married...there's no point

 

[8UWITH6]

I didnt even bother reading all the replies, but all I have to add is...........

I went through the same thing, forget it as fast as you can. It will only bring you down for as long as you let it. 2 yrs and some change, over in the blink of an eye. I have dated a few girls since. One was psycho, one was wayyyyy to clingy, and one, well, was a cheating witch with a capital "B". My current girlfriends name is really sexy......you might know her? Her name is "Buick Regal".........and shes twice the fun. Ill leave you with this quote, one of my favorites.

"The more I learn about women, the more I like my cars"

Move on, youll feel better. Hell, I am still friends with/talk with my X, and she put me through a hell of a lot more crap after the breakup than I care to get into. It took a few years, but I can see her and hang out with her w/o even thinking about the past..........well most of the time. Good luck!

 

[88 CuttyClassic]

well my problem is my ex was also my best friend and she knows all my problems/secrets. Now i don't have that outlet. i want to forget about her as a girl friend but its hard when i still want to be friends. By the way i haven't seen my ex since july 14th. That's a good start right? she just keeps hounding me about wanting certain pictures back.

 

[zam70]

An EX is an EX for a reason - Never never NEVER forget that reason.

Any woman (or man) who leaves one person for another is destined to continue with that action....they are always looking for something (percieved) better.


when you first break up (even for awhile afterward) all you can think about is the good stuff....F-that! Don't forget, there was bad stuff too....we just have a tendency to forget those things....DON"T forget the badstuff.


move on my friend...if you're a good guy, there are LOTS of girls who are interested, they just don't know it yet.

 

[d0n_3d]

i have progressed into the stage now of actually hating her...now all the bs that i had to put up with about her is starting to come to my thoughts...i can remember all the things i used to hate about her...i am thinking more about the negatives of her rather than the positives...and the positives i can get from any girl really...same thing for the negatives...this girl wasn't anything special like i once thought...now i am starting to realize things...

right now i think i am still missing her a LITTLE bit...but i am more pissed off at her and i mostly hate her now...i hope this is normal...i think the next step after this anger stage is the "let go and move on" stage where you are almost healed...i am starting to gradually move from the anger stage to this final stage...but sometimes you jump back into the depressed stage (stage1) but it's only very brief like when a song comes on the radio and it was "our" song...i got depressed but then i changed the radio station to something heavy metal and then i got pissed!

 

[GN One Day...]

Originally posted by zam70
Any woman (or man) who leaves one person for another is destined to continue with that action....they are always looking for something (percieved) better.

Well said.
I went through this too, in college, like everyone else. I did decide to cut her off though, as hard as it was. I knew that if she thought the grass was greener and left (like she did), but decided it wasn't as good, she was still looking for someone else to even consider doing it. So, we weren't meant for each other, bottom line. Move on, she isn't going to be your best friend, confidant or anything but an ex. Don't lie to yourself. Take her back and she'll do it again. Maybe not maliciously, but women will lie to themselves more than they will to you, and convince herself to come bac to you. Then she'll be gone again, when someone else lights her fire and you'll be the chump. "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me."

After that, I worked at replacing her. That was a bad idea and didn't work out. I decided to take it easy and live for myself for a while and relax. Later, I met my wife when I wasn't even trying. Never would have thought things would be better than that other girl, but having the right woman is incredible. I can't even believe that was me back then, it's like I was a different person.

You want a song to listen to? Find Garth Brooks first album and check out "Unanswered Prayers." Truer words were never spoken. Even if you don't like country.

 

[88 CuttyClassic]

Originally posted by GN One Day...


You want a song to listen to? Find Garth Brooks first album and check out "Unanswered Prayers." Truer words were never spoken. Even if you don't like country.

country music is my problem right now! I hated it and my girl would always put it on when we were lying in bed. i started to listen to the words and i kinda like it now. I try not to listen to it cause the messages seems like they are pointing right at me but for some strange way i'm drawn to it. A few songs that are bitter sweet for me are:

These days
my list
Moving on
the dance
red rag top

She always told me that "we" were gonna end up like the song "these days" by rascal flatts and now i believe she was right.

I can see the negatives that i had with her, and the good far out weighs the bad. So that being the case i'm confused as hell and don't know what to do other than keep the duals blowin and the tires burnin.

 

[d0n_3d]

we'll see what happens...i am just not gonna worry about it anymore...i am gonna get my car fixed...go racing and hang out with my friends...party time is NOW

it's great to have a GN to play with isn't it? i love this car at least when it's not broke!!!

 

[zam70]

Originally posted by d0n_3d
...now all the bs that i had to put up with about her is starting to come to my thoughts...i can remember all the things i used to hate about her...i am thinking more about the negatives of her rather than the positives...and the positives i can get from any girl really...same thing for the negatives...this girl wasn't anything special like i once thought...now i am starting to realize things...

AND THE TRUTH shall set you Free!


See, our minds get clouded, we think "oh, it's not so bad" But guess what?! It is!
The good news: Not all women are bad, they really aren't...
When you end up with a bad person don't forget - YOU chose them. That's right, it was your free will that you ended up/stayed with someone that you really weren't happy with in the first place, YOU - Your fault...take notes and , never let it happen again and be wiser for it.

 

[88 CuttyClassic]

the straw that broke the camel's back

well today it hit me like a rush of adrenaline how angry i am at my ex. Here's the situation, i have to go to her house and bring her back the nude picture i have of her. I am nice like that so i figured i make my self som copies and let her have her piece of mind. so i told her i was busy saturday and i could bring them by sunday and i get this reply: "i'm not going to be home on saturday either..matt's band is playing a show in Erie..we're going up there for the day and tonight. sunday you'll have to call and give me a time..we might be at Matt's parents for his little brother's b-day party." F$@# matt, lame A$$ punk anyway. He can go play in his gay band and she can put her mouth right on the tip of my 3 inch exhaust will i hold down the hammer. I'm about to go nuts and start hitting people, i asked her not to mention him around me. Now i hate her. Thanks guys, you were all right. I know that might not sound bad to most of you, what she said, but to me thats like daggers in my heart. I need to go SMOKE some mustangs, i'm shaking i'm so mad!

 

[The Blob]

Post that picture.

Come on, you know you want to.

 

[OmahaKnight]

I've been in your same situation a few times before bro and its never easy. But you will get over it and sooner then you think.

I remember back in my early 20's I was dating a girl for about 2 years and she decided to dump me for some guy from El Salvador who spoke very broken english. As if I wasn't devasted enough she dumps me for this guy!! And to make it harder we all worked in the same place.
One nite I went to talk to her and she basically told me to go away and never bother her again. My friend drove home cuz I was in no shape to drive. On my way home I got a call from a HOTTIE that I work with that I gave my number to a few days prior. She called wanting to go party with me and party we did.


I'll never forget that feeling tho, going from what felt like the lowest I've been in my life to damn near ecstasy. Whats the cure for getting over a woman? another woman of course. You'll feel much better the second you hook up, even with just a phone #

 

[GNandGS]

Re: the straw that broke the camel's back

Originally posted by 88 CuttyClassic
the nude picture i have of her. make copies piece of A$$ and she can put her mouth right on the tip hold down the nuts and start shaking

For some reason, that's the only text I see in your post... harhar

Shawn