441120 has it right, although I forget which 2 pins have to be shorted. Who here remembers? I wanna say the top right and top left pins? ..You short those pins, which pushes the IAC pintle forward and seals it so that when you start adjusting the idle set screw, you wont have any extra air coming in, screwing everything up. You short those pins with a paper clip for 30 seconds, then turn ignition off and pull the paper clip out. Disconnect the IAC connector. Try to start the car. If it wont start, open the throttle blade a little bit by turning the idle set screw. Keep doing that until the motor will start. The engine should be warmed up before you start this. Now with the engine idling, start turning the idle set screw until the engine just barely dies. It should be able to idle at 400-500rpm without the IAC plugged in, but it doesnt matter. Now that the engine died, turn off the ignition and plug the IAC connector back in. Now you're good. Now its time to adjust the TPS. Make sure you are no higher than .44 volts at idle. Dont go back and forth between IAC-TPS-IAC-TPS. Thats pointless. The throttle position was set when you set the IAC, and it should be left alone.
This is the way I did it and my IAC counts are like 10-15. I think the counts were about 70 or something when I bought the car.