Does your software have this delay feature in it? It's in the newer releases. Might give you some flexibility.
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I've had some cars that seemed to be unfixable with the stock style parts. I remember fighting with them endlessly, replacing everything and measuring gaps on each tooth of the reluctor wheel. Making sure they had resistor plugs, suppression wires, diodes on relays, shielding wires, extra grounds, etc etc etc. There were a few that would always run fine until you tried to put some power down and then they would freak the f&ck out. Very frustrating.
Every year at BG watching the cars run, there are more than a few TR's that will pop & fart trying to make a run. I'll see it and hear it and know right away, that dude just lost sync.