Originally posted by BlownZ
Paul...some advice...not that you need it...but don't let Dave handle your PR work. <snip>
Dave actually does a VERY good job 99.9% of the time, is very helpful & been playing with the turbo Buicks a few years more & gone faster than me... for now
and is a great person that people that know him can attest to. With reading his post again, it's hard to see how he actually meant to come across with it, being you can't actually hear his tone of voice. I know from talking to him that he was upset at the original posting, that it was negative, offensive, and incorrect in more ways than one, and didn't need to be said the way it was said. As you just pointed out, being professional, sincere, and mature in your posts gets a MUCH better result.
The behind the scene situation with this customer has made the whole ordeal quite interesting. I will not say anything bad about anyone 99.9% of the time, and neither does Dave. I am sure he was holding back a LOT of what he wanted to say, as was I. Certain issues that have happened with that order & any other persons don't need to be discussed in an open forum. This makes it VERY hard to understand where we come from some times, but seems to let everyone else say what they please, factual, fiction, opinions, feelings, whatever. Most of the time, any difference of opinions & negative feelings are due to a communication issue not seeing eye-to-eye on things. Perception is a crazy thing. If we were to be that opinionated on any topic (like some of the negative postings), it would cause more people to turn away for really no reason other than personal opinions. For instance, if I said I was a hard core Browns fan (not really), I may not get a sale from someone in PA that is a diehard Steelers fan. Sounds silly, but it's real. Sometimes it's just best to keep a lot inside, especially in an open forum where people are judging what you say, just as you did with Dave's post. He really only posted facts, and is kinda caught in the middle, between me & the customer (more than once). Dave's last line was directed more at me, because we talked about how much time we are losing by just answering the calls asking where people's orders are at. He has been taking approx. 1200 minutes worth of it a month, in his spare time, with no pay. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt 1st time out, question things the second time, and if they continue to be a but head, well... Knowing ALL the facts here, I believe Dave handled himself extremely well!
As for the "blame", well 100% of it IS ME. I am basically a one-man show, so who else could I blame it on? That damn cat!
Actually that's kinda funny cause we have a cute little stray that's really friendly showed up here last week. We can't find her home, and decided to adopt it, and took it to the vet to check things out. Turns out it probably has some disease like Lukimea for cats, might have a year or 2 to live, or could be pregnant, or both. We have to leave her outside so she doesn't spread it to our other 2 indoor cats. Now I spent time taking her to the vet, money for shots & checkup, building a warm temp home outside, etc. Can't stand to see her looking in the window sitting in the rain & snow when I work. And NO I can't just put her down, so yeah... It was the cats fault!
As for a high schooler or other person to help out, well, I can't even find the stuff I need & don't have a place to work out of right now. Stuff is still at the old place, some at the new place, some in storage, and some at the shop & some in the trailer. Little hard to have someone stop by & help when you don't have something & somewhere to do it. That was the main reason to do the move, cause AFTER the move, it will be possible to do that. Doesn't help me now though.
Thanks (almost all) for the ideas & support!
We WILL get thru all this & be in GREAT shape for next year. Just getting there will be a bit tough. I just hope people give us a chance to get thru it all, without flaring tempers or cancelling orders.